Welcome

Our autonomic nervous system is always listening inside and outside of us, and communicates with us. It notices and assesses every micro moment for signs of threat or safety, then cues our biology to adapt and support us with either protection or openness and connection. A complex trauma clinician, Deb Dana (2018), defines “glimmers” as referring to any small moments that facilitate regulation and a sense of calm and wellness. Glimmers Psychology aims to provide a space where you are supported to find grounding, safety, and connection to feel understood and welcomed. From this space, we can access our joint wisdom, knowledge and skills to make the changes that are most important and meaningful for you.

“Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does.”

- William James

“So you see, the grief doesn’t get smaller – life just gets bigger.”

- Lucie Brownlie

“May your choices reflect your hopes, not your fears.”

- Nelson Mandela

“What I am looking for is not out there, it is in me.”

- Helen Keller

“You can feel like a mental patient but that doesn’t mean you have to act like one.”

- Marsha M. Linehan

“The music is not in the notes, but in the silence between them.”

- Wolfgang A. Mozart

“Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value.”

- Albert Einstein

“We had to learn…that it did not matter what we expected from life, but rather what life expected from us.”

- Victor E. Frankl

“We crave and fear becoming truly ourselves.”

- Abraham Maslow

“Even after all this time, the sun never says to the earth “You owe me.” Look what happens with a love like that, it lights the whole sky.”

– Hafiz

“We cannot heal what we cannot feel.”

- John Bradshaw

“The actions of confidence come first, the feelings of confidence come later.”

- Russ Harris

“If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.”

-Irvin D. Yalom

“Story follows state.”

- Deb Dana

“We speak not only to tell other people what we think, but to tell ourselves what we think. Speech is a part of thought.”

- Oliver Sacks

“Every act of perception, is to some degree an act of creation, and every act of memory is to some degree an act of imagination.”

- Oliver Sacks

“The giant oak is an acorn that held its ground.”

- Anonymous

“I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become.”

- Carl Jung

“Love and work are the cornerstones of our humanness.”

- Sigmund Freud

“What you resist, persists.”

- Carl Jung

The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.

- Carl R. Rogers